Category: Divorce
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I Didn’t Do This
It’s been three years of being on my own, and many more before that where I was living life without a partner, although we were in the same house. It was today that I was driving to work and out of the air, I could see and feel the words…
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A Relationship is not a Hobby
No one can make anyone, anything. I was revisiting this thought the other day, that we can’t use relationships as hobbies, but some people do. That’s why one of the first questions I will ask someone when thinking about going out is “what are your interests” or “what makes you…
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Singing from the Shadows. The Cicada’s Guide to Resilience, Transformation, and Self-Expression.
The author identifies with cicadas as their spirit animal. Cicadas exemplify resilience, enduring years in dormancy before their spectacular emergence, which mirrors life’s transformations, requiring patience and tenacity. Their emergence represents shedding past attachments for a bright future, while their synchronized appearance underscores community strength. Their distinctive chirping heralds self-expression.…
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Bring in the new…
Taking down the Christmas tree inspired some new decorating. I’ve put some of my favorite clutter in front of one of my living room windows. Right next to this is a little beverage station area, clearing off counter space in my kitchen. There are days living on my own that…
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Today I got back on the treadmill.
I’ve always thought that divorce would be more fun if on signing day you received a divorcery kit that consisted of running shoes and bourbon.